I am a twin flame and am helping others find and align with their own twin flames as well. I have created this blog post to share tools, tips, and guidance with other divine feminines along this journey. For the feminines, it's all about patience, faith, facing triggers, surrender, healing the past, trust, unconditional love, and healing abandonment issues. My Mayan life path number is all about patience so, of course, I would have to embark on this grand endeavor (I remember my horse trainer warning me that patience would be my biggest obstacle to overcome in life).
"Blessed Are They That Have Not Seen, and Yet Have Believed" ~ Jesus
I talk to a lot of people (both Divine Feminines and Divine Masculines) about this in my job as well as the research I've done so feel free to ask me anything in the comments below or schedule a session. I'm seeing more and more twin flames coming together at this time (they come together in waves) and it's super inspiring! I share updates regularly on my new private Facebook Group and sometimes I put updates on Instagram or in my newsletters.
Masculines are welcome to participate as well (this isn't masculine in the physical sense, but rather, dominant in masculine energy), but I'm addressing the feminines here because I am one so I know the journey best from my angle. Michael Timby is a great resource for masculines reading this although you may appreciate some resources here as well.
Here's a very inspirational video about the mission of twin flames and what the big picture is.
TOOLS I'VE CREATED FOR TWINS
House of Idems is another great Facebook group for twins. There's great support there as well.
MY FAVORITE YOUTUBE READERS
House of Idems (Q&A and Channelings)
Twin Flames (ignore the teasers if you don't want to pay)
Twin Flame Psychic 1111
Queen of Swords (fast forward to her card reading if you don't want to listen to all the other stuff)
Numbers to watch out for and what they mean (put in "Joanne's Sacred Scribes" with a number in Google for full meanings):
1's = New beginning, Yes's, and a series of ones is twin flames (11:11)
2 = partnership/union, couple
3 = Twin flames (you, your divine partner, and source as one), catalyst/ignition, divine protection, divine partnership
4 = stability, wedding/coming together/commitment, and being surrounded by angels' support
5 = Divine Change
6 = The "Lovers" card in the Tarot. Balance of masculine/feminine. Equilibrium.
7 = Divine/divinity, spirituality (I see it as 'get present' sometimes if I'm too much in my head). Your spiritual path
8 = Infinity/long term happiness w your ideal mate, twin flames
9 = almost there; 10 = it is done! This is complete. So be it. Your wish is the universe's command.
THE PURPOSE OF TWIN FLAMES
1) To save planet Earth (AKA "Ascension"). I know that sounds so dramatic, but it's true. We are forming a new Earth at this time and the collective vibration of the planet needs to raise to a certain level for ascension to occur. The happiness and harmony of the twins not only raise each others vibrations, but the entire collective and anyone they come into contact with and inspire during their everyday lives. With all the chaos, destruction, and heartache in the world, the twins are here to balance that out and help stabilize and provide a new template for a new civilization to live by. They are "power couples"... leaders who set an example. Also, twin flames usually have a mission they have together that is also quite inspirational and exciting for anyone participating so that is yet another angle from which they bring great joy to our collective energies.
) To be an example of unconditional love. First you heal yourself, then you heal each other in your relationship, then this spills over into everything you do. Therefore, taking personal responsibility is mandatory for this journey. ithout it, your relationship is meaningles since this TF journey is all about learning how to unconditionally love yourself and other. t's a waste of time to merely be trying to come into union. Even if you come into union, you'll go into separation because your ego has such a stronghold. Your twin will not be perfect so don't put that expectation on them or think they are the key to your happiness. Focus on you and your own growth. If both of you do this, you can overcome anything.
What does it mean to love "yourself"? First, there's the superficial kind of loving yourself which consists of taking care of your body, cutting yourself slack, not beating yourself up, taking a break, replenishing your energy, having a good attitude, having fun, and recharging your batteries. These things make you happy as long as they are there. Take them away and you'll get sucked back into negativity again. Up and down you go... loving yourself then hating yourself and back again. Circumstances dictating how you feel about yourself.
Then there's truly loving your "self". This a level where you realize there is the drama of life you're interacting with, but remain untouched by. At this level, you see you are not your personality, your body, your opinions, your beliefs, and, instead of feeding or accommodating that persona and its attachments, or trying to be a 'better' persona, you realize you are perfect in this moment as you are...that you are the authentic beingness beyond all of it. You are the tingly aliveness and animation of your body. You are free. Complete acceptance of all life has to offer however it shows up. Loving what is without wanting it to change. This is true love for self.
IS THERE ONLY ONE TWIN FLAME FOR US?
Yes. I believe this to be the case and Elizabeth from "House of Idems" concurs. There are plenty of karmic partners (those we learn from), but only one that shares this deep soul connection.
HOW TO IDENTIFY A TWIN FLAME
The following list I got from the book "Twin Flame Code Breaker 11:11 Key Codes" by Dr. Harmony:
- Twin flames feel the need to be honest. The ultimate truth comes up and they feel the need for confession.
- Twins can communicate about anything and everything and can spend hours talking.
- Twins feel that they are born to carry out a great mission or have a greater purpose.
- Twins emit creative energy used to create something productive individually and together.
- Twins know the other person as well or better than they know themselves.
- Twins enter 5D (5th dimension time), where time goes by fast, to accelerate the process, getting them on the same page faster.
- Twins get on a fast track of esoteric cosmic wisdom.
- Twins start seeing 11:11 around the time of physical connection.
- There is usually not an immediate chemical attraction (lust); they are typically "not your type". (this is to help us overcome our egos and love from the heart.). Once together, however, the passion is unparalleled.
- Twins prepare for advanced ascension work and do this work together after each have awakened spiritually, or at least are in the process.
- Twins can see issues that need resolving in other people and they know how to help them.
- Twins are always teaching each other.
- Twins are very intuitive; one or both have a strong connection and are guided by spirit.
- Twins feel each other's pain (and even have been know to feel each others' hang over and sex with other partners) - even when separated.
- Twins come together to help complete the balance of their masculine/feminine energies.
- Twins feel an emotional and spiritual connection (and have usually had some type of kundalini/spiritual awakening).
- Twins have suffered much pain in previous relationships.
- Twins usually have some form of telepathic communication.
- Twins have the ability to heal others.
- Twins look, feel, and act younger.
- Twins are capable but have trouble asking for help.
- Twins activate past life awareness's in order to clear the past.
Other indicators or FAQ I've learned from other sources since I've been on this journey:
- The Divine Feminine twins usually look into the meaning of twin flames when they meet.
I looked back in time to see when I'd met my twin to see if this was true and it was. I liked another guy at the time we met, but I did start watching twin flame videos right at that time. I was watching them thinking it could be the other guy, but the timing was there.
- Twins usually feel fed up with regular (karmic) relationships and just want to find their soulmate.
When we first met, he said, "I just want to meet my soulmate" and I said, "You and me both." Ha! Little did we know we just had.
- The Divine Feminine usually knows first. Once she/he knows, she starts to reach out to the masculine. At first, she makes more effort than he does, but eventually learns to trust in divine timing and lets it happen naturally. She learns to trust it without needing 'proof'. Part of the reason for this is, she needs to heal abandonment issues and get over insecurities (on the flip side, he's doing the same thing but in a different way which is one reason why he doesn't reach out back except to stay connected however he can find the ability, strength, and courage to).
- There are tons of synchronicities between the twins. Some examples from my own journey:
First of all, I was enlightened over 10 years ago. I was like Eckhart Tolle. It wasn't anything like being human and I didn't think for six months. I talk with Bentinho Massaro, the spiritual teacher, about this in this video
I had an ex boyfriend who died 5 years ago come to me and tell me to move from Texas to Boulder because he was going to help me meet my 'soulmate'. So I moved. And he has helped ever since.
Shortly after meeting my twin, I was in a Staples parking lot here in Boulder and felt a sexual energy rise up in me. It was so intense I sat at the stop sign for several minutes looking in the rear view mirror ready to get out of the way if need be as I was having what felt like a full body orgasm for several minutes. I learned later this was a kundalini awakening.
He ordered a reading over the phone a couple months later. He amazed me with how honest and kind-hearted he was and I advised him on his relationship. I immediately felt protective of him. I found out later, he decided to leave her after our talk.
Also, after our talk, I started taking a course on "How to Meet Your Soulmate in 27 Days", and was only on day 4 (my favorite number), when I listed an experience I'd like for my soulmate to have had in common with me so I could identify him when we met. I thought about it for days then chose enlightenment. I thought that'd be an amazing experience to share with someone, and it'd be extremely rare to find someone who'd have experienced it like me (that didn't involve drugs). I even wondered if I'd ever find such a guy, but was willing to wait for the rest of my life to find it. The NEXT DAY, he called and I told him to stay present in order to find the answers he seeks. He said, "I know what you're talking about, Amy, you're talking about enlightenment. I've been enlightened before." I about fell out of my chair. I was skeptical so asked him lots of questions. It turns out his experience was very similar to mine.
Then, on Easter, we both started to awaken AGAIN - TOGETHER! I felt the once might have been my last, but twice and together?!? I think the universe was just showing off and having a good laugh with that one!
One week later, I went to a telepathic massage therapist and, when I got off the table at the end, she said she saw something weird. She said I was tethered to someone else... someone who was awakening with me. I asked if it was the guy I liked (at the time I had a crush on someone else) and she said no. She said it was with someone who doesn't live here right now. This guy AGAIN?! WHOA!
At one point, I sent him a twin flame video that so accurately described us I couldn't resist. It mentioned an opportunity out here I had told him about for him to bring his practice here to the Boulder area and talked of him being called to a higher calling to a more spiritual community where he could work with his divine feminine, but he needed to decide what he wants to do and the type of woman he wants and that I was at a distance just watching, supporting, and loving from afar... there to offer guidance if needed. I told him I watched twin flames videos all the time and think of him. Two days after I sent that video, my twin joined Instagram using a number with his name. That number is the same as my area code when I was a child.
One night, I was told by a guy friend that he figured this was just unrequited love and I needed to just get over it. I was open to facing that if that were to be the case and was ready to move on if so. He suggested, if I wanted to know the truth, to drop a bloodstone in a jar or glass of water and put it beside my bed. I don't know why, but I did it (the only water I could find in a jar was holy water, believe it or not, which ends up being symbolic being that twin flames are such a spiritual connection). Then I talked to his higher self before going to sleep and said, "I want to know the truth. If you are my twin flame, I really have to hear from you, in the PHYSICAL, tomorrow or I'm giving up." The next morning, he texted me thanking me for the last talk we'd had a couple weeks prior... that it meant a lot. He'd never done that before. Btw, as a side-note, later this guy friend told me he had been turned on by a hug we had so I tell people to beware there will be ill-intended friends who will try to sabotage you!
My ex boyfriend who died (the one who's mission is now to help me find true love) would have been the same age right now as my twin flame (13 years younger). They were a mere 3 months apart in age! I only recently realized this.
Another time a couple weeks ago, I asked the universe, "If he's my twin, why don't I dream about him much?" (I'd only had two dreams that I could remember). That night, I dreamt my twin showed up unexpectedly with a pastor, his mom, and his best friend and married me on the spot. There was laughter and knowingness in our eyes even though we'd never discussed getting married or even dated.
The most profound synchronicity is that, almost every time, when I watch twin flame readings, they seem to be reporting on my life. It's like these readers are a fly on the wall of my life! Sometimes, it makes me gasp and my jaw drops to the floor. For example, one time, they said my twin was talking with his parents trying to sort of warm them up to the possibility he may want to begin a new life. The next day, I went to dinner at a cajun restaurant (he's originally from Louisiana) and I texted him and told him where I was. He said, at the moment, he was in Louisiana (he lives in Missouri) visiting his parents! Another reading said we were both making changes separately, but, ultimately, in order to come together (like a "V" shape). They said the divine feminine was moving to a location that was more conducive to the relationship (which started to unfold) and that he was going to be presented with a very profitable, divinely guided, career opportunity as an opportunity to be closer to his divine feminine (which also happened synchronistically - a couple I set up now have a practice together and are thinking to leave it and move out of state. She came to see me (I usually go to see her) and she ended up asking me if my twin would be interested in coming out this way (she knew he was in the same line of work). Another time, I had gone through a major anxiety/panic attack for the first time in many years. I was actually worried I wouldn't show up in the readings anymore... that somehow I had jumped off track or something as a result (the divine feminine is pretty much always be in a pretty good place). I was scared to look at a reading. I finally faced my fears and watched one and the reader said, "Wow. Divine feminines, I don't know what you just went through, but, whatever this is, snap out of it! I see panic, anxiety, worry. Something big has happened to her." I sobbed like a baby and felt the grace of God so strong. He was winking at me in such a special way in that moment... the moment I needed it most. And, just like that, I sprang back.
Both of our last relationships were broken up from psychics telling us it would be best (and we listened and knew it to be true).
Oh, yeah! And, recently, I had been talking to him in my sleep and whatever we were talking about made me wake up a little 'cause I was being prepared for something. I heard, "I'm taking the brunt of this, but you'll definitely feel it on your end, ok?" I said, "Ok" then suddenly felt this intense cramping and was doubled over in pain for several minutes. I ran to the bathroom and was in there for several more minutes then back and forth for probably an hour. I wanted so bad to text him the next morning and ask, "Rough night?" but I'm giving him plenty of space now because I feel he needs it. But, of course, I did make note of the date in my diary - for the record.
- Twins trust each other automatically. It can take you back to an innocent, childlike time in your life like how your best friend felt when you were little.
- The DF's job is protector and dreamer and the DM is the one who 'makes it happen' (the doer/manifester).
- They compliment each other very well - usually one is strong where the other is weak and vice versa. Together, they become an unstoppable force.
- Twins often have the same or similar physical ailments or struggle with the same things in different ways. For example, if one has a chronic problem with their knee, often times, the other twin either has the same thing or develops it. I know one couple where the feminine's calves pop (how common is that?). After living together, his calves also began to pop. Crazy!
- Twins often have a significant age difference (not always, but it's common). I don't know why this is, but this seems to be yet another egoic thing they have to get over... that true love trumps societal and egoic rules.
- Twins can't stop thinking about each other. Even when you put them completely out of your mind and move on, they're still in the background like trying to run from your own shadow. You just can't shake them.
- Twins boost your faith in the opposite sex again. They make you feel like you can love again and, at the same time, it scares you for the same reason. It can be terrifying.
- Feminines may feel the inclination to protect him like you would a sweet kitten. I know I did. This is because the Divine Feminine's job is protector and visionary.
- Psychics and readers can tell you he's the one, but you're ultimately the only one who can really tell. It's just not like anything you've ever had with anyone else before and you'll compare everyone to them. There's a purity... a divine pull that keeps sucking you in.
IS THERE A FALSE TWIN FLAME?
No. But there were three guys I thought might be my soulmate before I met the actual one. This was partially because of a special circumstance where I was inspired to move to Boulder by a deceased ex boyfriend who told me to go there to find my soulmate. This made me look for him constantly (and the universe had fun with that - the real twin flame I didn't see coming of course). And, reflecting back on their significance, each one prepared me for a certain aspect of my twin I had to get acclimated to. One made me feel comfortable and desired in my skin again and ignited passion in me again for the first time since my divorce. He was 20 years younger, good looking, and tender hearted. The next taught me about shy guys, what a great catch they are once they commit, and I saw the importance and relevance of past lives and how they influence us in this life. He was also young and super cute. He and I had a really playful, sweet connection. The third was my best friend who was 21 years younger. We hung out for hours and never tired of each other. We made each other laugh so hard for hours on end. We were fascinated by each other. We talked about everything under the sun with complete honesty. We could sit and 'just be' in silence together for hours.
My twin has all of the attributes of all three of them only he is just 13 years younger, more mature, solid, established in his work, emotionally intelligent, and more in line with my beliefs. If I'd have had all this in my twin all at the same time, it'd have been overwhelming and I'd probably have felt I wasn't worthy or good enough. Now I can't imagine anyone better for him than me. I still get twinges of insecurity, sure, but, if it weren't for these others, I don't think there'd have been a chance. I'd have just been too skeptical of it all seeming too good to be true. It's all perfectly and divinely orchestrated so trust the process. You'll know when you've hit home.
AM I THE DIVINE FEMININE (DF)?
The divine feminine is a woman who has gone through hell and back only to come to a loving and mature place of feeling abundant and trusting in the universe. She feels like life is on her side and is quite happy with how her life is at present. Her face is to the sun and she has her arms out taking in the sun's rays. She is grateful and radiant. She has not become tainted by her past hurts. Those hurts have only become the charcoal that makes her fire burn more fiercely. She, often times, is a healer or spiritual teacher or is stepping into some sort of nurturing role in life. She speaks her truth in a loving and passionate way and doesn't cower at opposition. She's learned to stand up for herself with firmness yet gentleness. She takes personal responsibility for her own happiness. She loves her divine masculine unconditionally. If this doesn't describe you, remember there are different phases or waves so if you still have some forgiveness or healing to be had till you feel this free, don't be disheartened. Just keep developing and you'll be on the next wave. It's all a matter of divine timing.
I think the divine feminines and masculines were the "sweet ones" who tried to make our marriages work, who tried to be in integrity and honor, who were faithful, told the truth, and did our very best to be the best spouses we could be and were abused, put down, made fun of, and treated poorly as a result. We were "weak" to the cold of heart. These sweet, kind-hearted people have now left these karmic relationships, having learned to love and value themselves, and are now ready to begin a whole new level of love on a level all its own. They are evolving into realizing their worth and yearning for the kind of love that heals you from the inside out... a child like, innocent, pure hearted love that makes their hearts and minds expand and their partner cherishes them for who they are (because they essentially ARE them). They're coming home to themselves. Pure harmonious love with balanced masculine/feminine energy.
A SIGN YOU MAY BE CLOSE TO UNION
I've heard this before that many twins come into union right at a time in their lives when it felt like their lives were falling apart. I always thought that was weird and my life's always gone so well I didn't suspect that would be the case for me, but, now I think I know why that is. I think it's because unions happen around lunar eclipses and other intense moon energies. Within these energies, you are forced (made to feel SO uncomfortable you make big changes) to get rid of everything that doesn't serve you anymore, face your demons, and kind of start your life all over again with a clean slate. Makes sense that's when he would step in, right? Like having a blank canvas and create new lives together. My twin and I actually met under the energy of an eclipse.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE, BUT ALL ONE
Sometimes, when we're going through this "life falling apart" time like this, we may feel lonely, betrayed, hurt, and left to fend for ourselves and like no one has our backs... like it's you against the world. But alone really means "all one". When you realize you are all one, there is no difference between you and everyone else and, just like water runs any obstacles, so, too, can you move right around anyone you feel you can't trust anymore and be supported by anyone and everyone. In a sense, when you broaden your scope, you are then supported by ALL of life. A stranger may give you a huge tip, a hug, someone from the past offers you gratitude. You run across a wonderful opportunity.
WHY ISN'T HE REACHING OUT TO ME?
For some time, Divine Feminines feel awfully ignored and rejected. They question the connection and think this might just be a case of unrequited love and wonder when it's time to move on. You can go ahead and try to cut chords and get rid of him, girls, and that might be a good idea for some of you in case he's not your true twin. But, if he is your twin, there'll be no shaking him no matter what you try (and vice versa). So, why is he not reaching out or responding to you? I know this is overly simple, but, he's just not ready. Period. Your job, at this point, is to make your wish, so to speak (which you have), and leave it totally alone with faith it's all working out. My guided meditation above helps you be in that feeling tone without putting pressure on your masculine. You just bask in the lovely energy of being with him. Take your attention completely off of him, keep healing, get on with your life mission, and have fun! Also, respect his decision not to reach out 'cause he's got a darn good reason for it. If you were a fly on the wall in his life, trust me, you'd be grateful he's keeping you out of it! He's sparing you. And, at the right time, and in the right way, there he'll be. And you will rest assured he likes you back and all those readings all this time were true. You'll feel silly for not trusting the universe. TRUST. Do the exercises below to deal with any resentment or other negative emotions that arise. If thinking about your twin makes you mad, don't think about him. The law of attraction will just keep bringing you more frustration. Just focus on gratitude and enjoyment of life.
WATCHING TWIN FLAME READINGS
There are lots of readers out there in Youtube land. I avoid fear-based ones and stick with the ones that seem spot on for me as it speaks to the DF (Divine Feminine). If you don't know who your twin flame is, just know that, if they're describing you and what you're going through to a "T", you've got a counterpart out there that is going through what the DM (Divine Masculine) is going through so just learn and grow till you two meet and magnetize toward union. If you do know who he is, keep in mind these readings are geared toward the collective so not everyone will resonate in every way. For example, I resonate with most divine feminine readings 100%, but, when they talk about issues she's having with her children, I know that's about the DF's who have kids... not me. But the rest applies. Also, sometimes, they talk about the DF who's mad and resentful because of years of difficulty between her and her DM. That's not me either. My twin flame journey started in February. So there'll be some things like that you'll ignore and just pay attention to those things that pertain... most of all, the advice.
WATCHING DIVINE MASCULINE READINGS
You'll notice the DM videos are watched twice as much as the DF videos. But, if you are only looking at the DM readings only, you probably aren't ready for union. Why? This whole process is about you learning self love. When you love yourself, you're healing him and yourself at the same time. I always watch the DF videos as well so I can get advice from ancient tarot wisdom (divine divination) as to what to do to grow or assist. In any relationship, you have to take personal responsibility. You can't wait on a man to make you happy. If you're more interested in snooping about him, but don't care about your own growth, your union will be delayed.
DEALING WITH OUR SHADOW SIDE
The most important element of coming together with your twin flame is each of you being balanced equally in your feminine and masculine sides and to be healed and whole individually (it's not like you both have to be perfect, but you've got to be willing to take personal responsibility and not let your ego run the show). In order to do this, you've got to face your shadow side head on. Here are some tools to help you breeze through any triggers and issues that will arise to cleanse you of any remnants of co-dependency, fear, and ego that remain as an obstacle to you guys coming together:
Respecting the Shadow exercise
Learning how to love yourself
I LOVE YOU (I do this every night)
Physically touch your heart, close your eyes, and say, "I love you" to yourself like a mantra repeatedly (and, yes, he feels it too)
Then, once you've got a good buzz going, start thinking back through your day and reflect on anything that bothered you about you and say, "I love you even when..." or "I love you even if..." and keep going till you can't think of anything else that needs addressing. It's a great way to love yourself and get a good night's sleep. You can even do this right when you're hard on yourself throughout the day too.
I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN
It's always scary to open your heart up again. There is a lot of pain that comes along with the perks. Those triggers will come up and, at first, you'll be scared they'll respond like your ex's (the "karmics" - the ones who teach us lessons) when you feel like you need to bring something up (all the divine feminines have come through some super hard past relationships to help you grow and make you appreciate this rare find). Then you'll come to realize his reaction doesn't matter because you've come to love and support yourself through this time and can take care of yourself. Plus, there's a quality there in him you notice is kinda new for you... kindness. Compassion. He cares. Deeply. Maybe not about everything, but the stuff that matters. As time goes by, you'll notice you become less and less triggered and you become more and more free through the same clean up process you used on yourself prior to this relationship. The relationship becomes a portal for you to transcend the ego once and for all... only with someone. And, for the most part, they get you. On a deep level, they get you. You just feel it. Sure, you'll disagree, but it'll make sense. You'll balance each other out and kinda 'spot' each other. When both of you become more free, in your power, trusting, and loving, what could ever stand in your way? What God has brought together, let no man put asunder. Our karmics were valuable teaching tools is all. Now we step into fully loving ourselves like never before. We take it to a whole other level. Scary stuff for sure.
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ROSE QUARTZ = Invites love into your life. It opens your heart to receive love and gently reminds you that you are worthy of love. Wear this stone or keep it by your bedside to remind you that love is coming your way.
DOUBLE TERMINATED CRYSTAL QUARTZ = The Soulmate stone.
SARDONYX = Sardonyx is a highly protective stone that embodies a vibration of happiness, optimism and confidence. It helps to boost your self control and your level of personal power. This stone creates an excellent grounding action through the earth and base chakras, and brings you back to earth after spiritual work. It has excellent metaphysical properties that encourage motivation, willpower, discipline and strength of character.
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RHODOCROSITE = The lovely marbling of pinks and whites in this stone helps us to unite the different aspects of our personality so that we can learn to truly love ourselves. The only way to bring true, authentic love into your life is to love yourself first. Rhodocrosite helps you to appreciate yourself as it teaches that you are worthy of love, health and happiness.
RHODONITE = The pinks and blacks in this stone remind us that affairs of the heart are often painful. Rhodonite is the Stone of Forgiveness and it will help you to let go of any pain from a past relationship with an attitude of love and forgiveness as it gently cleanses your aura of hurt, anger, regret and bitterness.
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APACHE TEAR = This form of Obsidian is known to absorb depression, grief and negativity. Legends say that as the Apache women and children watched their men die in battle to save their land and way of life, they cried rivers of tears. These tears hardened into these Obsidian stones which we call Apache Tears. The legend says that whoever holds an Apache Tear will never grieve again. Carry this stone with you to help absorb any sadness you may be carrying in your heart.
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